The candle is a quite difficult sex position for the woman, keeping her legs up might be of a challenge. On the other hand this is a very satisfying sex position and also suited for anal sex!
The Candle description
In this position the man is in control for the most part. The woman is lying on her back with her bottom raised from the ground. The man is on his knees facing towards her. The easiest way for the woman is to put a pillow under the head and another one under the bottom. This way her hands are free to take some of the control.
The woman can use her hands to control the speed of the thrusts. This way she can also control how deep the man penetrates her. Men with a big penis should not fully penetrate the woman in this position as it might hurt her.
The position is also suited for anal sex. This is not the one to start experimenting on that but certainly a very good one. So if you are already doing that it is well worth it to try it out.
Because the woman’s buttocks is raised, this position is very good for g-spot simulation. This makes it a very satisfying position for both men and women. And is most likely one of the major factors for it being a very popular position!
Tips
- Use your hands to massage her inner thighs.
- Good position for anal sex.
- Good position to conceive a baby.
- Using a pillow under the hips of the woman will help.
- Placing a pillow under her head might also make it more comfortable.